This post is personal, not political.
I am an American Jew. Not a Jewish-American, but an American Jew.
I am a 2nd-generation American. This country welcomed my grandparents more than 100 years ago when they came to Ellis Island in New York Harbor, fleeing pogroms and terrorism against Jews in Russia and elsewhere in Eastern Europe.
This country enabled my grandparents and my parents to raise their families in peace, with each generation moving up the financial and education ladder. I was the first in my family to graduate from college.
As a kid, I sometimes felt isolated because of my religion – mostly around Christmastime when so many friends and neighbors put up decorations and trees and we sang Christmas carols in school. Outside of the house or synagogue, I rarely heard any mention or acknowledgement of Chanukah.
By the time my children were in school, things were very different and people – at least here in the New York area – acknowledged that some of us held beliefs other than Christianity, and the shared values as well as the differences were celebrated.
I’ve been fortunate that, except for some stupid incidents when I was about 10 or 11, I haven’t faced anti-Semitism directly. And even at 10 when I and some mostly Jewish friends were chased off a neighborhood ballfield by some Catholic school kids who threw rocks at us and called us Christ-killers, I held no grudge, since I had so many Catholic friends and neighbors who I knew would never condone such behavior and who always treated me and my family with affection and respect.
Despite feeling a part of this great nation, I’ve always had a nagging fear – way down deep – that what happened in Germany in the 1930s could happen here. The Jews in Germany were assimilated, like Jews are here, and they were a vital part of that nation’s cultural and economic life. Most of them felt what eventually happened there could never happen to them.
That’s how many of us Jews here in America feel. We love this country and we cherish the freedoms it affords. But we can’t ignore history and as much as I couldn’t imagine discrimination or worse for Jews here in America, deep down is the knowledge that to some, we are different and perhaps viewed with suspicion or even hatred. Usually, I feel secure because civility and the law will protect me and my loved ones from anti-Semitism that might turn violent.
Now here’s the part that may look political, but I’m just speaking honestly… The rhetoric that we’ve seen from the president over the past 3+ years has alarmed me. If he talks hatred against Latinos and Blacks, we know what eventually follows… the Jews. And in his rallies, he has made some statements that could be seen as dog-whistles for anti-Semites.
The Anti-Defamation League has documented a startling increase in hate crimes against Jews in America over the past 2 years -- up almost 60 percent in 2017. Part of it is attributed to the tenor of the president’s talk. Words do matter.
Many people in public life and in government, including many Republicans, have called him out for talk that might encourage prejudice. The nut-job who shot up a synagogue in Pittsburgh Saturday didn’t take direction from the president, but he may have been emboldened to act by the hateful rhetoric, just as we’ve seen an alarming increase in violence against black people brought on by the rhetoric about “taking our country back.” Back from who?
I’m pretty sure we’ll feel comforted by an outpouring of sympathy and support from most Americans over these next few days. The vast majority of Americans are horrified by prejudice and violence toward minorities. (And yes, we Jews are a minority.) But the sympathy and support and brotherhood must also come from our nation’s top leaders, and it must be honest support rather than hollow words mandated by the situation.
I’m an American Jew. I would hope I and my loved ones will never be made to feel isolated from the mainstream because of our religious beliefs. I would like to think it could never ever happen here in America. But that’s something we all have to continuously work toward – all of us, from the top down.